If you are a fan of C.S. Lewis, you need to pick up Patti Callahan’s book Becoming Mrs. Lewis. This historical fiction is based on many interviews and loads of research which enables Callahan to bring Joy Davidman’s experiences to life as she develops a long-term relationship with Lewis.
I have read books by CS (Jack) Lewis (The Narnia books and The ScrewTape Letters, for example) and by JRR Tolkien (The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings series), but years ago when I found out they were friends, I was enchanted by the thought. These two giants in the literary world hung out together. They were in a writing group together called The Inklings. And as the story goes, Tolkien helped lead Lewis to faith in Christ. After this, Lewis began to weave Christian themes and undertones into his writing. It has fascinated me for years how these two men could write such brilliant, fantastical stories with Christian themes and symbolism that has been and continues to be loved by both the secular and Christian worlds. Lewis is well known for his theological and philosophical writings, as well.
Although Becoming Mrs. Lewis mentions Tolkien and The Inklings, it is really the story of Joy Davidman. As a person with a similar conversion story as Lewis, she began writing letters to him. She also felt a literary connection to him since she was a published poet. Struggling in an abusive marriage and new to the Christian life, Joy sought counsel from Lewis. Her letters from America traveled across the ocean to Lewis at Oxford and he wrote back, gradually leading to a long-term pen-pal friendship.
Over many years Lewis continued to give her advice and encouragement, but he always kept his integrity. This life-long bachelor kept his feelings in check, only allowing his love to be philia (friendship/brotherly love). After many years when Joy’s circumstances changed and Lewis had the support of the Church of England, only then did he allow his feelings of eros (romantic love) to surface and they were married. For years there was a clear line he never crossed, often leaving Joy to wonder if the love she felt was only one-sided.
I applaud Patti Callahan’s success in writing this book. The amount of research she did truly made these two people come alive again. The love and respect readers have for Lewis will only be reinforced by seeing his continual integrity and kindness. As for Joy, we see a woman who endured many struggles with strength and courage during a time when society did not see a woman’s value. Additionally, we see how Lewis valued her and was influenced by her. Readers will realize that she greatly impacted Lewis to become the man we cherish today.
If this sounds like your kind of story, pick up a copy of Becoming Mrs. Lewis by Patti Callahan.